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Sunday, September 12, 2010

LOVE as the subtrahend, spot the DIFFERENCES!


Major differences inevitably comes within due to two main facts. One, the society's perception and the other is your own inferi
ority complex and insecurities. Growing in the world of frustrations, demands, comparison and contrast, how can someone live his life to the fullest considering these wrecked differences as the basis of morality and glory? What I mean is not to neglect it but to surmount it. Accept it. Improve it. After all, mind over matter truly defines your stand. A noble life does not depends on your negative perspective neither on your awful differences, rather on what are you doing on the things that you have. Regardless if it is a peculiar fancy idiosyncrasy of yours or a nasty awkward eccentricity of your personality.


No matter what we say that we don't pay attention to criticisms, still it is natural that we give a bit of our precious time to those little shits. I'm actually pertaining to love differences. If you're in love, why don't you just love each other. Period. And you may now live happily ever after. Paradoxically, that's not happening in reality. Our naked eye cannot see the tiniest particle on Earth yet can absolutely spot even the smallest difference on one's enigmatic body. Is it that important to consider the age, sex, orientation, belief and physical differences of your partner? Well apparently, it is. However, love binds us even if we are totally distinctive. Is it awkward if the lady is taller than to her partner? A 6 footer girl, dressed with a gorgeous face and wearing her delightful red stiletto partnered with a 5"6' guy wearing his black taxido suit doing the "HHWW" thing. Does it look like an outrageous scenario? Personally, no. In fact, I find it cute and appealing. It is interesting how a 5 footer guy brainwashed the mind and hook the heart of a 6 footer girl! Bottom line, you're in love!

A more sensual and sensitive issue is the difference between a couple's orientation. Yeah, when we say couple, obviously a male and a female sharing their love and affections each day and night. Unlimited and in demand. The drama is YOU and ME against the world. Nowadays, couple also pertains to a male-to-male and female-to-female relationship. You've heard it right, homosexuality, bisexuals, loving and caring for each other. A typical kind of lovers except for the fact that the difference is that they have the same of sexual orientation. You think it's a gross? Well get the fuck over it. If you believe in love, you won't care the boundaries; surpassing the expectation and rule of the society is nothing and worthless; even if the cruel world will despise the both of you; you don't care at all. That's great! You live on your expectations, clamor and requisition. As long as you loved, ready to see the magnificent beauty of this world. Life is a matter of acceptance, if you can't accept it then you better kill yourself now. This issue is getting bombarded by a lot of sectors coz they say that it is morbid, immoral. Think not twice but thrice. What is more immoral, abortion or same sex relationship? Death penalty? Divorce? What else? Duh! Things will be an immoral act depending on how one carries the situation. For instances like the mother is in 50:50 point, the doctors and her husband needs to choose between the baby and her wife, watchagonnachoose? Of course her wife! In some unforeseen circumstances, abortion can be moral and legally acceptable. Trying to point out that the 20th century, our modern world changed and strictly divergent. Going beyond, the most common, usual yet folly, age gap issue. Seriously, do you guys will fall in love in a 60 years old person when in fact you're only 22 years old? Possibly yes. "OH MY GOSHHHHH" - an absurd and moron's reaction. In my case, okay. You're in love. You loved. Go ahead. Show off. Unite and express love in every corner of this empirical world. Impossibly yes but possibly because you conquer the risk.


We don't need to complicate small differences and little things. Don't drag yourself to hell. There are numerous reasons to be happy, multiple stands to love your partner continuously and even if the people around you keep telling that you guys are incompatible or what; IGNORE. You may listen but don't be a fool to believe on it. Opinions vary. Some of them are for real however most are inconsequential bitch. A bombast! As long as you're not devastating the society and the people around you. Be with it. Grant your goals, your greatest desires to enjoy life. In subtraction, the process goes like this: Minuend - Subtrahend = Difference; in my case LOVED - LOVE = DIFFERENCES. Loved symbolizes the traits that you admire on your partner that's why you loved him/her while love signifies the major differences of the both of you as an individual, as a couple and yet you never stop loving each other!

Friday, August 27, 2010

TECHY TRICKY: A Mind Gasping ?


One earth, one world, one nation surrounded by an infinite thing. What is this? Nothing but the technology. It keeps on expanding, continuously crawling in the empirical shape of this planet. Technology encircles the world. It leads toward globalization and modernization that made the World technically smaller and reachable.

Some may say that technology purely contributes a lot for the benefit of the community. For better and for the best. However, due to the contradicting perception of people, some are saying that technology is "an angel in disguise". At first, it'll truly gives you the best satisfaction that you are looking for, and at the end, something devious will be critically acclaim.


Everything has a purpose. Similar that everything has a reason. An intention or an outcome will be always appealing depending on how an individual will work on it. Use it. Do it and perceive it. If it is just for your own greediness, of course the outcome will be just good for you but not for the others. Likewise, the use of technology should be tolerate wisely and properly. Too much knowledge and cognition on it without the proper consent of your mind with regards can lead to a total devastation. In the sense that you might something do terribly out of this world. Our mind is our strength but our imagination is the source of our strength. The good outcomes of technology really depends on the people who uses it. Numerous things and factors should be consider before creating and inventing something. Fields like artificial intelligence are much intricate compare to others. There are fragile rumors that are keep on traveling that someday if A.I will be completely develop, there is a chance that robots will deteriorate the world. All things are possible. We need to think of this though it is skeptical. At least, this will serve as a slight warning to correctly use the power of technology.

A timeless question, paraxodical yet vital. Is technology a friend or a foe? No one can say a specific answer yet. Even in ourselves, we fight against our thoughts and feelings. We don't know if we really know ourselves. Something that is cynical. Bottom line, even human beings consider themselves as their own enemy, a foe. What more of the technology? What matters most is not the question rather the things that we must implement so we can avoid that question! Go thinking. Stop living and start existing. Committing mistakes are natural, but that doesn't mean it is inevitable. Perhaps, we can do polish it before reaching the dilemmas. Let's not wait for the mistakes before we learn something. Learn something to avoid mistakes. Technology is sometimes tricky. Life is always. It is simply connected. Now it is your choice if you're gonna be a friend or a foe with "technology".

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Love Story ٩(●̮̮̃•̃)۶

Everybody has a love story. Either way, everybody deserves to have a fruitful love story. Have you ever had it? Have you ever experience the feeling that made you uplift your aura and emotion to the fullest? Well if yes, I commend you but if no, everything will happen at the right place and at the right time. Patience is truly a virtue. Destiny comes in our way. However, if we are not making at least some effort, destiny will remains in word but not in action. Therefore, learn to exist and stop living.
Peter Pan once said that if you want to fly, just close your eyes and suddenly you’ll fly. But every time I close my eyes and I think of you, why do I’d fall? Is it because of gravity or probably it is just how your eccentricity captivates my idiosyncrasy? Like a natural phenomena similar to the concept of magnetic force that build the Earth’s magnetic field. Sounds intricate. Love is intricate. It is complicated yet it takes process. Love doesn’t need two people looking each other instead two people who loves each others positive and negative traits and at the same time, a couple who’s looking in the same direction of life. No boundaries, no curves and no bumps at all.
What’s your ideal love story? To whom do you want to spend a year or a decade of your life with? To whom do you want to dedicate the sarcastic quotation, “You and Me Against the World”? And the common line when you’re in love, “I Love You, Now and Forever”. But wait; have you ever heard the scientific explanation with regards to this one? Some says that don’t use the word forever when you are expressing your love and affection to your special one because the word forever is indeed empirically quantifiable. Instead, say I love you now. I love you today and I love you till death do us part. Isn’t it more convincing? Apparently it is.
Everybody needs a partner. Everybody needs a song. You need an inspiration. But what if at the end of the time you can’t find one? Are you going to cry? You’re free to do so. Are you going to blame yourself? Much better I guess but at the end of the road, you’ve just realized that it is outrageous and nonsense. So who did a mistake? Who commit a faux pas? You or your destiny? Maybe the God but that will be too harsh to blame the one who gives you the opportunity to finally falling in love endlessly. God will never close a window without opening a door. Have you try to look in different direction or just stuck on one perception? Considering some points, balance everything. Use all your senses. A perfect love story will never ever be made without some hindrances. As a matter of fact it made a love story more interesting to compliment itself and to rectify the mistakes.
Just like a verse in the poem, “As long as you love, you still have hope”. What’s your current status? Single? Are you in a relationship or secretly in love to someone? Secret on, eventually. How are you going to define it? Is it complicated? Whatever it is, the point is you’re in love. That wraps up the conversation. The problem with some people is that they don’t know how to appreciate the little things. Love isn’t only for two people. As time goes by, you’ll definitely discover that there is no such thing as too much love. I called it, “outcomes”. The product of our mistakes, hardships and perseverance. An indefinite outcome of our devotion and desperation, the siblings of our timeless joy and happiness and a result of our sacrifices and predicaments.
I want a love story that is surely peculiar from the others. A love story that will make me suffer not because of tears and heartaches but to suffer from a lot of blessings and aspiration that can possibly happen. I know for a fact that each and every one of us will suffer because of many things but at the end it will ensure us a true happiness and desires. Sufferings will turn into achievements. Achievements to satisfaction. Afterward, a perfect love that will not demand anything but only love for each other. Eternal love to be exuberant. Happy life to make it simple.