LOVE as the subtrahend, spot the DIFFERENCES!

Major differences inevitably comes within due to two main facts. One, the society's perception and the other is your own inferi

ority complex and insecurities. Growing in the world of frustrations, demands, comparison and contrast, how can someone live his life to the fullest considering these wrecked differences as the basis of morality and glory? What I mean is not to neglect it but to surmount it. Accept it. Improve it. After all, mind over matter truly defines your stand. A noble life does not depends on your negative perspective neither on your awful differences, rather on what are you doing on the things that you have. Regardless if it is a peculiar fancy idiosyncrasy of yours or a nasty awkward eccentricity of your personality.


No matter what we say that we don't pay attention to criticisms, still it is natural that we give a bit of our precious time to those little shits. I'm actually pertaining to love differences. If you're in love, why don't you just love each other. Period. And you may now live happily ever after. Paradoxically, that's not happening in reality. Our naked eye cannot see the tiniest particle on Earth yet can absolutely spot even the smallest difference on one's enigmatic body. Is it that important to consider the age, sex, orientation, belief and physical differences of your partner? Well apparently, it is. However, love binds us even if we are totally distinctive. Is it awkward if the lady is taller than to her partner? A 6 footer girl, dressed with a gorgeous face and wearing her delightful red stiletto partnered with a 5"6' guy wearing his black taxido suit doing the "HHWW" thing. Does it look like an outrageous scenario? Personally, no. In fact, I find it cute and appealing. It is interesting how a 5 footer guy brainwashed the mind and hook the heart of a 6 footer girl! Bottom line, you're in love!

A more sensual and sensitive issue is the difference between a couple's orientation. Yeah, when we say couple, obviously a male and a female sharing their love and affections each day and night. Unlimited and in demand. The drama is YOU and ME against the world. Nowadays, couple also pertains to a male-to-male and female-to-female relationship. You've heard it right, homosexuality, bisexuals, loving and caring for each other. A typical kind of lovers except for the fact that the difference is that they have the same of sexual orientation. You think it's a gross? Well get the fuck over it. If you believe in love, you won't care the boundaries; surpassing the expectation and rule of the society is nothing and worthless; even if the cruel world will despise the both of you; you don't care at all. That's great! You live on your expectations, clamor and requisition. As long as you loved, ready to see the magnificent beauty of this world. Life is a matter of acceptance, if you can't accept it then you better kill yourself now. This issue is getting bombarded by a lot of sectors coz they say that it is morbid, immoral. Think not twice but thrice. What is more immoral, abortion or same sex relationship? Death penalty? Divorce? What else? Duh! Things will be an immoral act depending on how one carries the situation. For instances like the mother is in 50:50 point, the doctors and her husband needs to choose between the baby and her wife, watchagonnachoose? Of course her wife! In some unforeseen circumstances, abortion can be moral and legally acceptable. Trying to point out that the 20th century, our modern world changed and strictly divergent. Going beyond, the most common, usual yet folly, age gap issue. Seriously, do you guys will fall in love in a 60 years old person when in fact you're only 22 years old? Possibly yes. "OH MY GOSHHHHH" - an absurd and moron's reaction. In my case, okay. You're in love. You loved. Go ahead. Show off. Unite and express love in every corner of this empirical world. Impossibly yes but possibly because you conquer the risk.


We don't need to complicate small differences and little things. Don't drag yourself to hell. There are numerous reasons to be happy, multiple stands to love your partner continuously and even if the people around you keep telling that you guys are incompatible or what; IGNORE. You may listen but don't be a fool to believe on it. Opinions vary. Some of them are for real however most are inconsequential bitch. A bombast! As long as you're not devastating the society and the people around you. Be with it. Grant your goals, your greatest desires to enjoy life. In subtraction, the process goes like this: Minuend - Subtrahend = Difference; in my case LOVED - LOVE = DIFFERENCES. Loved symbolizes the traits that you admire on your partner that's why you loved him/her while love signifies the major differences of the both of you as an individual, as a couple and yet you never stop loving each other!